Today I want to talk about how you can identify the signs of a girl’s betrayal, and understand that she is deceiving you. But I want to start by asking you to answer the following questions. How would you feel if your girlfriend told another guy about her sexual likes or dislikes? What if she was dancing in a club with another guy? Do you think this is treason or betrayal? Believe it or not, many women consider even that to be cheating.
In truth, some people do think that it is perfectly normal for their partners to flirt freely with a member of the opposite sex. When they share their personal information and feelings with someone other than their partners. When they give gifts to a representative of the opposite sex, if he is not a close person or relative. Discuss topics of a sexual nature. Or, even worse, have sexual contact with someone else.
Different people may have their own assumptions or theories, which they see as corresponding signs of infidelity in a relationship. However, there are some of the most common signs that a girl is cheating on you that you should look out for first.
Cheating is an act of betrayal that is not recommended for forgiveness.
Common signs of cheating on a girl
1. She begins to pay more attention to her appearance.
If your girlfriend suddenly starts to devote more time and attention to her appearance, her hair, her makeup, and without any special occasion. Then it is possible that she wants to impress someone else. Pay close attention to her choice of underwear. Because most girls love to wear sexy underwear when they start having sex with a new partner. So if she wears “granny panties” when she is next to you. But she wears overly sexy underwear when she goes to work. This may be a sign that she is cheating and cheating on you.
2. She spends too much time on the Internet when you are not around.
You do not need to hack her mail, or social networks, to find out how she behaves on the network, or to see who she communicates with. Just ask her to give you her phone number for a while. And then watch her reaction. If the girl is categorically against, or you will find strange entries and correspondences on her phone that she never told you about. Then she is clearly hiding something, or is already dating someone.
3. Constant accusations against you
Accusations, various attacks and reproaches are also common signs of a girl’s betrayal. If she constantly begins to accuse you of cheating, or hints that you are having an affair with someone else. Although you did not give any reason for this. Then know that she does all this out of her own guilt.
4. Secret phone conversations
Secrecy and various secrets are other obvious signs of a girl’s betrayal. Just watch if she leaves the room when she gets a call, or when she calls someone? Observe her behavior during such calls. How does she behave? If your girlfriend is trying to hide conversations on the phone, and does not speak with whom she communicated, then it is quite possible that she has someone else.
5. Sudden changes in sexual desires and preferences
Some cheating girls begin to avoid sexual contact with their real partner. While others may want it more and more often than usual. But both increased and decreased sudden sexual interest is a bad sign in a relationship that needs to be paid special attention to.
In addition to the level of her sexual desire, you also need to pay attention to her behavior and changes in the way she does certain things during sex or other intimate moments. Perhaps she starts kissing you in some other way. Maybe she wants to do it in certain positions that she has never shown interest in before.
Although this behavior may simply indicate her interest in a magazine article or advice from one of her friends. But a sudden change in sexual desires could definitely be a sign that she’s learning new “tricks” from a new partner.
6. She starts to bring up serious topics.
“I need a little time to sort out my feelings.” “I think we need to take a little break from our relationship.” “I think we need to change something in the relationship.” All these and similar phrases should alert you. Because girls who are connected with someone else need more time to be alone and think things over. She may say this out of confusion in her feelings.
7. Sudden need for privacy
If things that you both shared before suddenly become personal, then that is also not a good sign. She can start password-protecting her smartphone or computer. Her cell phone bills or credit card charges may also be hidden. And if you want to find out from her information that was previously generally accepted for you. But now it becomes a secret, or she reacts negatively to it. This behavior should also alert you.
8. Disputes about nothing
Does your girlfriend begin to argue with you on trifles, and arrange conflict situations out of the blue? If she starts to break down at you because of little things. And your relationship seems to be unstable lately. This may be a sign of an impending separation, which will be caused by her betrayal.
9. Listen to your intuition
Your intuition and gut can also be an indicator that things are not going well in your relationship. And, if you feel that something is going wrong between you. Either you have strange feelings and are looking for excuses for your girlfriend’s behavior. Then pay close attention to other signs of cheating on a girl that will help you make sure that she is really cheating on you.
I do not support treason in any of its manifestations. Because it is wrong, both from a moral point of view and from an ethical point of view. I consider infidelity and betrayal of a loved one to be the most painful thing that can be in a relationship.