It is common for a man to conquer a woman he likes, seeking her favor. This behavioral ritual is laid by nature in the subconscious of the stronger sex. But if a woman is the first to be active, then this behavior often causes a certain dissonance in men. How to keep the boundaries and what actions to take so that the young man you like has an independent desire to win the girl?
How to get a man’s attention
To begin with, it is important to understand which female images attract men. “Men love with their eyes.” There is a certain set of outwardly attractive features, the combination of which makes the image alluring and desirable.
Neatness and tidiness.
Two important components of human attraction. Unwashed, uncombed hair, lack of manicure or peeling varnish, stale clothes in spools, dirty shoes always look repulsive. For many people, it even causes disgust and dislike.
A woman should always look clean and fresh. Neatness is one of the forms of respect not only for yourself, but also for the people around you.
Always fresh hairstyle, good makeup, velvety moisturized skin indicate that a woman “invests” time and money in herself, loves herself. Self-loving girls always arouse the interest of others. Any male representative wants to get permission to come closer and touch such a pleasant person.
Someone prefers extremely thin girls, someone with curvaceous forms. Some like petite ones, others like tall ones. The taste is always individual. But! A strong healthy toned female body with elastic buttocks catches the eye for a long time and makes you turn around. Many modern women have long since moved away from exhausting endless diets and engaged in fitness. Regular physical activity makes the female body elastic, sexy and youthful.
The pleasant, delicate scent of perfume and clean body is always seductive and attractive. To a woman who smells good, I want to get closer, enjoy the enchanting aroma.
Elegance, sense of style, harmony, femininity and appropriateness to the setting make the image attractive. Vulgarity, pretentiousness and extravagance often repel men. A large number of accessories, bright contrasting colors in clothes, many exposed parts of the body make the appearance aggressive and intimidating. It is preferable to choose clothes from light flowing fabrics of light shades. Neat shoes with small thin heels will make the look more feminine.
Smile and look.
A shining, cheerful look gives a feminine image lightness, intrigue. A tired and sad person with dull eyes is associated with a lot of problems. Establishing a relationship with a problematic woman, tired of life, is not interesting for a modern man. Everyone wants lightness, joy and carelessness. The prospect of just such a relationship is captivating and desirable. Sometimes one benevolent smile and an interested glance is enough for the necessary response.
A well-groomed, self-loving woman is always confident in her strengths and in her own attractiveness. Such a woman will definitely not go unnoticed. It is worth noting that self-confidence should be benevolent and welcoming. Arrogance and arrogance always alienate others.
The sound of a gentle velvety female voice can make you turn around. Harsh, loud voices are usually not attractive to males. But women’s iridescent laughter is always interesting and infectious with a return smile.
How to interest a man in the process of communication
During a conversation, it is important for any person to feel that they are being listened to carefully. It is necessary to demonstrate interest in a conversation with a partner, show respect for the interlocutor’s opinion, emphasize his exclusivity.
- In order to start a dialogue correctly, it is advisable to figure out how to interest a man with a question. Here is exactly the question that will be interesting for the guy to answer and demonstrate his intelligence, erudition and self-confidence. This can be a request for advice, for example, on a professional topic. During the answer of the interlocutor, you must periodically show your interest by clarifying questions. You need to choose positive topics that can create an overall good mood. Complaints, gossip and tearful stories can form an unfavorable impression on the interlocutor.
- If possible, it is better to prepare for communication in advance. Learn about hobbies and hobbies, mutual acquaintances, about pets, if any, and try to start a conversation on these topics. It is advisable to talk more about exactly what is interesting to a man.
- If you want to impress with your own erudition, then you need to be brief. Long stories always bore the interlocutor and make you want to end the conversation as soon as possible. You should not use unflattering statements in someone’s direction in a conversation, especially in a rude form. There is no need to insist on controversial points and demonstrate your stubbornness. Such conversations can annoy the interlocutor. It is also worth avoiding “sensitive topics” during the conversation, such as religion, politics and money.
- To make a pleasant impression on the stronger sex, you need to speak in a calm, soft, low voice. The manner of communication and intonation with which a girl communicates is extremely important for a positive perception on the part of a man. It is necessary to exclude crude slang expressions from the lexicon. You need to speak correctly, without raising your tone. Make sure that speech is not too quiet and monotonous.
- Body language can help show interest in a man. The psychology of communication recommends behaving in a certain way during a dialogue with a partner. Poses and gestures need to make it clear to the interlocutor that his speech is really interesting, exciting, arouses respect and approval. During the dialogue, it is advisable to lean a little towards the interlocutor, look directly into the eyes, and smile benevolently. Closed poses (crossing arms) can create a barrier between interlocutors.
- Light flirting shows interest in a man not only as an attractive interlocutor, but also as a sexual partner. Confident posture, alluring relaxed smile, mischief in the eyes, easy hair straightening awaken hunting instincts in the stronger sex, make a woman an object of desire.
- Sincere compliments towards a man always cause a positive reaction and approval. All representatives of the stronger sex are vain and crave recognition. But praise should look natural and deserved. It is necessary to approve exactly those advantages that the guy really has.
These tips are also suitable for those who want to interest a married man in the process of communication. The only topic to avoid when meeting married men is their wives. Criticism and gossip towards their other halves are unacceptable. And in general, there is no need to remind once again that someone is waiting for them, and your presence is inappropriate and unwanted.
How to interest a man by correspondence
Chatting on a dating site or social media has its advantages. Especially for indecisive and shy women. It is often very difficult to be the first to approach a man and get to know each other. Fear of looking complex, unattractive, uninteresting, or not smart enough often gets in the way of starting a relationship with the opposite sex. Communication by correspondence is another matter. It is sometimes much easier to interest a man on the Internet. Many people are more comfortable starting a conversation when they don’t see their reactions and embarrassment. You can think about the answers to the questions for a longer time, you do not need to constantly worry about how you look, whether the interlocutor noticed embarrassment and awkwardness. On pages of social networks, as a rule, it is easy to see the interests of the interlocutor and find a common topic of conversation. And also demonstrate exactly what you feel your own confidence in.
- In order to interest a man on the Internet, you need to properly design your page. Upload only attractive photos, delete all plaintive and spiteful posts. Especially those that relate to an impartial opinion about the stronger sex. It is advisable to demonstrate the versatility of your hobbies and interests. The page should characterize the girl as positive, friendly and cheerful.
- You can start by liking his photos and posts. Typically, in such situations, the young person is curious. If on the avatar he sees an attractive girl for himself, he will reciprocate, offer to meet. If for some time the man has not responded to signs of attention, you need to try to get to know yourself. Write a greeting, ask questions about his page (about photos and hobbies). In this case, it is advisable to make a compliment and start a dialogue on the topic of interest. The topic of the conversation can be determined based on his subscriptions and posts on the page in the social network.
- If you have started a dialogue by correspondence, you should not tell everything about yourself. In the absence of personal communication “face to face” there is a high probability of being too liberated and telling too much about yourself. It must be remembered that a woman must have a riddle in order for a man to want to solve it. So that the representative of the stronger sex has an independent desire to gain the attention of a woman. Ask more and talk less about yourself.
- Unobtrusive communication should not be allowed. The interlocutor should not feel pressure and heightened attention. You don’t have to be always in touch so that you don’t get the impression of easy accessibility. In this case, interest may not arise.
- An important point of communication by correspondence is the literacy of the interlocutor. You need to keep track of what you write and how. If you do not have natural literacy or good knowledge of the Russian language, check your spelling on the Internet. Otherwise, all communication may end without beginning.