Just like women, many men love attention, especially if it comes from a loved one. But how can we show love and attention to our men? What kind of romantic gestures should we use for our loved one to appreciate them? We will talk about this in this article. Only in this case it is important to take into account the fact that some women “wear pants in relationships” and are almost the head of the family. Others prefer to stay at home and do more household chores. This kind of behavioral difference will help you determine what methods and gestures to use to impress your man.
Define your role in the relationship
What steps are you taking to help your relationship flourish? What role do you play in this relationship? Are you a housewife, mistress, leader or subordinate? After all, we women play many roles. And many of us are amazing actresses. But in order to get an effective result, you should decide which category you belong to.
The keeper of the hearth
This role is played by a woman who stays at home, cleans, does laundry, takes care of children and other household chores. In this case, you enjoy cooking for your man, and you wait every day for him to come home. You may be paying your bills at the end of the month because your partner is too busy with work. You can also buy all groceries and household goods. In this case, you have many options to give him what he wants. But here are 5 little things you can do for him.
1. Tell the man that you’ve been thinking about him all day.
It will boost his ego and make him feel special. If that’s not enough, then show that it’s true by making his favorite candlelit dinner and place a small bouquet of roses on the table. Do you think men don’t like roses? But why do they constantly buy them for us? It’s not just for our eyes. It adds a sense of romance, love and intimacy. This little gesture for a man will let him know that you really think and care about him. And you want nothing more than to be only with him today.
2. Plan a romantic movie night
While some guys laugh at all these kisses and courtesies, many people really like them. Men just don’t admit it. If he asks why you chose a romantic movie, then tell them that you just like them. But if he wants, then you can watch what he likes. Don’t forget to prepare popcorn and cola before doing this. These romantic gestures will show that you respect and care for your man.
3. Indulge him
Yes, my dears, all men love it when women give them pleasure. It’s just another thing they don’t say out loud. Give him a little neck massage and see where it goes. Or say you already have a hot tub ready and join him later.
4. Play nice music
A good mood is everything, and music helps to improve your mood. You can dim the lights or just light candles. Or you can meet him at the door in your sexy lingerie or little robe. This may sound corny and demeaning. But when he looks at you as if you are the only woman in the world with whom he will ever want to be, then it is definitely not humiliating.
5. Leave short love notes
You can do this on notepad paper, stickers, or write with lipstick on the bathroom mirror. These romantic gestures and notes will remind him how much you care and love him. They will make his day so much better.
This type of women loves to make money. They have regular jobs and often work overtime. May be late for home due to business meetings or busy schedules. They like to plan ahead and make sure both of you are financially secure. Such women do not devote enough time to household chores, rarely go grocery shopping and spend little time at home. But their men still want attention. What can be done in this case to make him feel loved?
1. Bring home dinner from his favorite restaurant
First, make sure he isn’t going to cook dinner for the two of you, and he doesn’t have to stand over a hot stove all day. If this is not within your budget, then try to get out of the office a little early and prepare his favorite food. As a result, the man will understand that you came earlier only for his sake. And it will make him feel important and loved.
2. Send him a letter in the middle of the day
Write a love letter and send it while it is not busy. When the man reads, he may call and say how much it means to him, or he may just do something special for you in return.
3. Surprise him
Call him ahead of time and tell him you have a surprise, but don’t say what it is. I’ll leave this part to you. Because I don’t know what surprises your partner likes. But such romantic gestures in the form of surprises and gifts will definitely please your man.
4. Invite him out on a date
You can go to his favorite restaurant or bowling alley (if he loves bowling), or even a movie theater. Men love to date their girlfriends. It also shows that you are not afraid to be in public with him, and you want everyone to know how amazing your man is. That way, he will feel like you are proud of him because he is such a wonderful person.
5. Meet or call during your lunch break
Romantic gestures like meetings or taking phone calls during a break make you both feel special and loved. After all, you want to spend time with each other, even if you are busy. This is a win-win situation!
Both of you share responsibilities, you both do the cleaning, cooking, work, laundry, shopping, and so on. Home equality is the key to a happy relationship. You share the payment of bills, and you plan a future together, both go shopping and the things you need.
You are probably both very tired after a long day at work. You may not be in the mood to do anything, but you can tell the man what he wants and show him romantic gestures. This is probably the simplest category because you can do either of the other two, or add some more fun stuff to your love arsenal.
1. Come home together
Does he work near you? It’s wonderful. If not, then you can take the bus and meet at an equidistant stop. You can hold hands, hug, and talk about your day all the way home. Both of you will feel secure in your relationship and enjoy it.
2. Plan a game night
If your loved one loves to play games, then keep him company, or buy a simple board game that both of you will enjoy. It will help the two of you relax together, and it is a great moral support for him. So the man will really appreciate it.
3. Go to his work
First, it means that you take care of your relationship to “keep it afloat.” It will also convince him of the love you share. This will show that you are interested in him and what he does, and it will make him feel like your relationship is strong thanks to your support.
4. Have lunch together
You don’t need to cook if you don’t want to, but it’s a good way to spend time together. You can go to a café or a diner together. After that, you can take a short walk and chat. This will show you how much you love him and that you only want to spend time with him.
5. Plan your weekend together
You can go anywhere and do anything. For example, you can have a picnic in the park, or just take a walk around the city. You can spend the day at home in bed, enjoying your free time and each other. Find what you both like and do it.